What Admissions Officers Wish They Could Tell You (But Don’t)

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College admissions can feel like a mystery. Families often wonder: What are admissions officers really thinking as they read applications?

While they can’t spill every secret, here are some of the truths they wish they could share with every applicant.

1️⃣ We’re rooting for you.

Admissions officers don’t want to reject students; they want to find reasons to say yes. A thoughtful, authentic application makes their job easier. They’re on your side, hoping to see the story only you can tell.

2️⃣ We can tell when you’re trying too hard.

Over-polished essays or inflated activity lists stand out (and not in a good way).Your authentic voice matters more than sounding “perfect.” They want to meet you, not the version you think they want.

3️⃣ Grades and course rigor still matter most.

Yes, essays, activities, and recommendations count, but your transcript is usually the first filter. Challenging yourself with the courses available at your school (and doing well in them) speaks louder than a dozen polished sentences.

4️⃣ We skim… a lot.

Admissions readers go through hundreds of files in a short time. That means clarity counts. Use concise activity descriptions, clear organization, and easy-to-read writing. The faster they understand who you are, the better.

5️⃣ We actually love quirky essays.

A line about folding origami cranes, rescuing stray cats, or your obsession with chicken nuggets can catch attention far more than a “safe” essay about wanting to be a doctor. A memorable story sticks; a generic one fades. Unique voice > “impressive” vocabulary.

6️⃣ “Holistic” doesn’t mean everything is equal.

“Holistic review” doesn’t mean admissions officers weigh every part of your application the same. Grades and rigor still anchor their decisions, but they also want to know who you are beyond the numbers. Your essays, recommendations, and activities add dimension to your story.

7️⃣ Your recommendations can make or break.

A lukewarm letter can hurt more than no letter at all. Choose teachers who really know you, not just the one who gave you an A. A strong rec tells a story: how you learn, collaborate, and show up when things get hard.

8️⃣ We notice when you don’t know our school.

Generic “Why Us” essays? Instant red flag. When you mention specific professors, programs, or campus vibes, it shows genuine interest,  and admissions officers love that. (And yes, they can tell when it’s copy-pasted from another school.)

9️⃣ We’re human too.

They laugh. They cry. They drink way too much coffee. ☕And yes, they remember the essays that feel most real. At the end of the day, they’re people reading stories about people.

✨ Final Thought

Admissions officers might not say all of this out loud, but here’s the bottom line:

Be honest. Be specific. Be yourself.

That’s the application they’ll remember.

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